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Discussion TopicMuslim Community and British Politicians posted on 23/09/2009

 

Muslim Community and British Politicians

 

Jim Fitzpatrick, a British minister criticized the segregation of male and female guests at Muslim wedding. Yet another 'Gaffe' from another jumped up, half-baked, ill-educated Labour moron; a former fireman indeed. He learned nothing about putting out fires rather than starting them. He actually has a GCSE 'D' in Politics? God Help us internationally if he is ever made a Diplomat. I suppose he left in a huff because there was no beer an' 'Am sandwiches at the buffet. The Minister's action is just a stupid, attention-getting stunt appealing to prejudices. This serves only to inflame the prejudices so widespread today. People have their customs, and you don't insult them. It hasn't been that long since our society had some public institutions that kept men and women separate. And it hasn't been that long since women in our society typically wore hats with veils. Plenty of Western customs, we accept as normal, are unacceptable or ridiculous to others.

Muslim marriage is a religious ceremony. He insulted the bride and groom for his own political gain. They should not walk out because it would have been bad manners and rudeness to do so.  They should respect the couple wishes, it’s their big day. He should have ascertained what the customs are beforehand, and then not attended if he thinks the practice offensive. One should have respect of others people's customs, even if one does not agree.  Perhaps he should grow up and get an injection of reality.  If you are not prepared to accept this then don't go or don't insult the bride and groom by walking out. What a disgusting small minded little man. Just shows the caliber of today's MP's from all parties. Well being a Labour politician his appalling ignorance of Islamic tradition plus downright rudeness to his hosts does not surprise me in the least. He should do his homework instead of ruining someone
s day. He is totally an ignorant person. If a Muslim wants to have separation at a wedding (like much of the Muslim world) then they should be allowed to, and don't insult them when they do. Jewish wedding has observed the tradition of separating of men & women at ceremonies, without raising any eyebrows. Men and women are separated in Masajid and Synagogues. Muslim secondary schools are also segregated.

 

 In the past another British Minister Jack Straw caused a similar furore when he referred to Muslim veils as "a visible statement of separation and difference" and called for women to remove them during surgeries in his Blackburn constituency. No one has the right to ban the freedom of choice in a secular and democratic country. The right to choice is a basic fundamental right the person should have. To veil or not to veil should be an individual choice. Dress codes are for children. Muslim women should be free to wear burqas. If women get Away with wearing cropped shirts and pants that show their panties, they should be able to wear burqas too.

 

Globalisation is here to stay, Muslims are here to stay and so are other communities. Those idiot British ministers need to learn that the world is made up of different people and the British society and its Establishment need to learn to accept and tolerate every culture for what it is and most importantly respect and tolerate the values of each and every religion.

Iftikhar Ahmad

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Discussion TopicMuslim Children and Sex Education posted on 07/07/2009

 

Muslim Children and Sex Education

 

Muslim parents teach their children to respect their teachers. From a very young age, we are taught that Islam teaches us that after our parents, our teachers are most deserving of respect.
It must be an extremely confusing time for the Muslim parent in Leytonstone, London. For up to 30 parents may face prosecution for withdrawing their children from school, disobeying the teachers in the school, simply to secure a decent moral upbringing for their children. The school had decided to have a week of lessons about lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender history. Part of this was a special adaptation of Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet retitled Romeo and Julian as well as fairytales and stories changed to show men falling in love with men. Rather than filling the heads of impressionable boys and girls with fatuous drivel about gay penguins, schools should be ashamed of the fact that they are sending children out into the world barely able to read, write and add up properly. Muslim children are leaving schools without learning their cultural roots and linguistic skills.

The action was being taken against the parents as part of a policy of ' promoting tolerance'. So why not tolerate parents, who, for sincerely-held reasons, consider their children too young to be taught about gay relationships? This isn't education, its cultural fascism. A record numbers of pupils persistently played truant in 2006-07, with around 272,950 pupils persistently absent in 2007, missing more than 20% of school. We rarely see councils prosecute the parents of these persistent truants. Yet, the parents who removed their children as a one-off to protect their morality may be prosecuted!

If the local council does decide to go through with a prosecution, it would be in line with the government's approach to the Muslim community. Muslims who believe homosexuality is a sin would be labelled as extremists. Liberal totalitarianism is a growing phenomenon in Britain and the west in general but many people will be shocked that the school can override a parent's view of what's appropriate or inappropriate to teach their children.

This latest episode should be a wakeup call for Muslim parents. Muslim parents MUST explain our moral standards to schools and be prepared to take steps to protect our children’s morals and values from a growing agenda to impose liberal values upon them. This is an eye opening for those Muslim parents who keep on sending their children to state schools to be mis-educated and de-educated by non-Muslim monolingual teachers.

The solution of all the problems facing Muslim children is state funded Muslim schools with bilingual Muslim teachers. Those state schools where Muslim children are in majority may be designated as Muslim community schools. Bilingual Muslim children need state funded Muslim schools with bilingual Muslim teachers as role models during their developmental periods.
Iftikhar Ahmad

 

 

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Discussion Topicsalaam posted on 13/09/2008

salaam brothers and sisters
i was married in 2006
my inlaws and my husband are not good
they are too cruel
i had fever about 105 degree when i was expecting a baby
i don't want to go there
and i lost my baby
pls give me advise

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Discussion TopicA Muslim Women in South Africa posted on 04/08/2008

Salaam Sistas
 
I'm a 38 year old Muslim, South African woman, divorced with 2 daughters.  They are 18 and 3 years old.
 
I work asa trainer in a software developing company and after having completed school, 20 years ago, I am now studying toward a degree in Human Resources.
 
I have found that as time passes on for me, I am becoming lonlier by the day.  Most Muslim women in South Africa do not share the views I do.  Although we have fought to be rid of apartheid, the irony is that most Muslims practice their own unislamic version in South Africa.
 
I am a Muslim of Colour or as known in South Africa, a coloured person. This is due tot he fact that I come from mixed stock, a mother who is of Indian and Malay heritage and a father of Dutch and Khoi/Bushmen heritage.
 
I also married a man of mixed heritage thus my children have the so called appearance of Coloured people.  Needless to say this is an issue with some South African Muslims.
 
I married into a wealthy family at age 18 and found that my in laws looked down on me and some of my mother's family felt the same way towards myself and my siblings.
 
At age 38, I am really lonly as I do not have many friends and finding a partner here is almost impossible.  Many of the men want to marry only if you are yound and unencumbered whilst others are promiscious, drugging or looking only for a sexual relationship.
 
Do Muslim women in the UK find this as well or is this due to upbringing, culture,etc?
 

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Discussion Topic posted on 03/08/2008

Channel 4's The Quran was 2 hours of complete disappointment. Pandering to idiosyncrasies and contemporary politics it failed to show the viewers what the Quran is really about. Half an hour of this programme would have beentorturous but two hours is criminal! The one or two sane voices were drowned by fringe, controversial and even incorrect understandings of the Quran. The title itself implied that we might be given an overview of its history, itsdevelopment and the nature of how it works - this would have been beneficialto both non-Muslims and Muslims alike. Instead we got the 'Channel 4 same-old same old'! Channel 4 needs to seriously do some 'real Islam awareness training'! A complete waste of 2 hours!

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